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As children, we're told to use the Golden Rule: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." As adults, though... The Platinum Rule is to "Do unto others as they would have done unto themselves." In other words, communicate and treat coworkers and clients in ways that…

Clutter can cause chaos. Whether it's stacks of undifferentiated papers strewn on your desk, low-priority emails clogging your inbox, or old ideas clouding your mindset, clutter gets in your way. You can begin to simplify by tossing or acting on that paper, deleting that email, or deciding to operate on…

Happy New Year to you! I'm writing from my new home--my husband and I moved back to the Austin area a few weeks ago. 2020 may have knocked you out of your usual orbit but that's not necessarily bad. There's nothing like a crisis (especially one that's months-long) to clarify…

2020 has been a year of upheaval and change. Unfortunately, pandemics don't care about calendars. January 1, 2021, won't bring an end to the increased economic insecurity and need for extra health precautions of 2020. For that reason, please... Self-care is the antidote to heightened anxiety and exertion. And it…

If 2020 has taught us anything, it's that we humans need each other profoundly. People matter so much more than anything money can buy. With that in mind... Giving our full attention to another is one of the most meaningful gifts we can give. It requires putting away the cell…

We are born to change and grow and evolve. Whether it's the seasons shifting or the cells in our bodies dying and being created, change is the only constant in life. So... When you find yourself thinking or saying negative statements about how things are changing, pause. Breathe. As Cy…

Communication occurs only when the listener understands what the speaker means and vice versa. To create this true communication... It's easy to think you understand the other person and conclude "we're on the same page." You might be on the same page but in the wrong book! Reflect back on…

Even though they come at roughly the same time every year, the December holidays can seem to creep upon us. This year, take charge and... You don't need to finalize details. Just jotting down the outline of what's needed will get your subconscious percolating. Looking at the calendar to see…

Thanksgiving is a holiday known for its feasting and football. It's also a wonderful time to reflect on our blessings and the challenges that prompt us to grow. Practicing gratitude is a known source of positive thoughts, emotions, and relationships. What we focus on grows. When we reflect on our…

Want to run (or participate in) more efficient meetings? Act on this idea... Every item on the meeting agenda (yes--have an agenda!) should either be to solve a problem or make a decision. If an item doesn't have one of those goals, it doesn't belong. Send status updates electronically (e.g.,…